Yoga Under the Stars!
Join us for a night of wine, chocolate and Yoga Under the Stars! Experts, Lori C. Ebert – Dr. SexTalk; Amy Searcy – Yogi/QiGong expert and Nourish restaurant owner, Kirsten Carey come together to move your spirit, nourish your body and rejuvenate your sexy self!
Your evening will start with delicious wine followed by relaxing and sensual yoga outside under the stars. Enjoy the beautiful surroundings of waterfalls, palm trees and clear skies full of stars as you connect your mind and body. After rejuvenating your spirit you’ll delight in the wine and chocolate upstairs at Nourish. Here you’ll enjoy Wei of Chocolate, organic vegan and fair trade chocolate enhanced with herbs, spices and flower essences which balance your body and mind. You’ll savor delicious wine or Love Tea and share in the laughter and joy with your friends!
Enjoy short talks from Dr. SexTalk on Being Your SexTacular Self; Kirsten Carey on optimal nutrition and Zen Wellness lessons and center meditations from Amy Searcy. It’s a night you won’t forget and you’ll take home a sexy sense of your body, mind and spirit!
ASU SexTalk Oct. 13th!
Feeling like a devil? Our ASU Red Devil students will be tomorrow night after my sex talk! With over 1200 students in the downtown Phoenix ASU campus, it promises to be a standing room only! We have a state of the art classroom in the posh Walter Cronkite building that holds 250 students, but with all the goodies Fascinations FunLove has provided, I bet seats go FAST! Check out the Devils After Dark Facebook page for details!
Talking to college students is absolutely my favorite! I can remember learning all about sex in college, sometimes it was in good ways and others times in not so good! My first Human Sexuality class was a psych course in an auditorium room with 500+ people in it. I still have the vivid memory of seeing women get a C-Section and deliver a child vaginally. I still get the chills and maybe that is why I still haven’t born my own child! I don’t remember learning about all the fun stuff I’ve taught college students for years. Some of my favorites included fun gender topics and games, a Fascinations like scavenger hunt or creative aphrodisiac projects!
ASU students can look forward to their own juicy topics that will include:
- What is Normal Sex
- Anatomy 101
- Super Tricks & Toys!
- Safer Sex & Diseases You Don’t Want
- Nothing Taboo Question & Answer Session
Come learn about some healthy sexual fun and take home some wonderful treats, tricks and information to keep you HEALTHY!
I love my life! You know you have a dream job when you get to talk to strangers, friends and family about the juiciest thing there is – SEX! I shared the Erotic Secrets to Fellatio to a crowd of 75+ people last night and hopefully they all went home and engaged in mind-blowing oral sex!
This group shared the wildest places they’ve ever given or gotten oral sex and it’s a must read! Public parking lots are super popular as are camping or public places! Yes, look at the person across from you and figure they are doing it somewhere sneaky like you are! In the end, we are all sexual beings and everyone likes to get a little adventurous! Phoenicians are no different! Here are my favorite Top 10:
TOP 10 Wildest Places for Fellatio
- Given in a sleeping bag next to my sleeping grandma
- Lot 59 @ ASU until the cop showed up
- 40 feet under while scuba diving
- In a tent surrounded by people who were yelling encouragement
- In a DJ booth at a busy club when I was the DJ
- At the top of the World Trade Center
- Employees office after an interview
- On the Golden Gate Bridge while he was driving
- In the kitchen pantry during a dinner party
- On the roof of a health club
Let’s hope grandma was really sleeping! I also can’t help but wonder if they got the job after that interview? I think I’ll pass on the scuba diving adventure – I love it but it’s not worth drowning for! I answered a lot of great questions about taste, spit or swallow and how to prevent gagging. We also had a great talk about whether to eat asparagus or pineapple to make things tasty! Be sure to visit The Erotic Secrets of Fellatio for some of what you missed!
I want to extend a BIG thanks to Fascinations www.FunLove.com. This locally started store advocates sex education and puts on free community events. Yes, FREE! Nothing is free in life anymore! They do it because they believe in people having a great sexual experience and accessorizing your love life. In an era of Snookie and sex driven reality shows, this may not seem like a big deal folks, but it is! Sex is still a very TABOO topic in our country! So to have a local business provide free sex education is SEXY and you’re missing out if you don’t take advantage! Make a trip to one of their 19 stores in Arizona or Colorado your next date night! Live somewhere else? Search their website with your partner, order some fun goodies and have a sexy night at home!
If you really think about it, Fellatio (aka blow job, oral sex, hummer, etc.) is kind of funny. Think about it, you perform a lollipop act on the protruding organ of a man until it and he explodes! If you don’t know what you’re doing, and let’s face it – a lot of people don’t, then it’s awkward, funny and can be just all around uncomfortable. This is true for both the giver and receiver! I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have at least one horror story related to giving or receiving!
It’s a new day when churches can make innuendos about this sexual act so publicly! But then again, Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky brought an unfounded notoriety to fellatio that will forever mark history! Since then, it’s become more acceptable, more talked about and something that doesn’t make as many people blush. People still blush, don’t get me wrong but that is exactly why I agreed to give a talk on oral sex! Wouldn’t you like to know how to give a really erotic blow job or for your partner to be really good at it? If so, my talk is for you!
Like the sign says, when done masterfully and with some erotic tricks it really can bring a 6 foot man to his knees! This is true if it’s really good or really bad! If you want him to see GOD however, then come my way no pun intended! My talk, Secrets to Erotic Fellatio at the Fascinations Let’s Talk Sex Event on Sept. 15, 2011 will give you some good tips to bring your partner to his knees! This isn’t just for women, it’s for men too! What men do and don’t do can really make or break it for their partner! That’s part of the secret… it takes two to tango!
You can also bring all your questions and here are some of the most common:
- Should I swallow or spit?
- How do I ask her to swallow?
- How can he taste better?
- I don’t know where to start, what do I do?
- I can’t help gagging – what should I do?
I hope to see you there! Or post your questions or funny stories here!
What I did grow up dreaming of being was a teacher! While at first glance “The Erotic Secrets of Fellatio” doesn’t look like something you’d learn in school, it is sex education!
On the ten year anniversary of 9/11, I stand firm in my belief that if people really loved who they are and had mind blowing sex all the time, world peace would be real! Getting everyone to the point of mind blowing sex is going to take my life time and this week I’m starting by teaching Erotic Fellatio at the Fascinations Let’s Talk Sex Event on Sept. 15, 2011 which is FREE to the community!
I could easily give the average ‘Blow Job for Dummies’ class and cover the a,b,c’s but that is too normal and I’m anything but normal or average! What I’m committed to as Dr. SexTalk is global wellness, fun and freedom to bring sexual empowerment and harmony for humanity! You’re probably asking, how in the world do you bring all that to a blow job tonight? It’s EASY! Erotic Fellatio is built on wellness, fun and freedom. And, if you’ve ever performed this act you know it requires a whole lot of harmony, mind focus and talent! These are some of the secrets I’ll be sharing this week at the Fascinations Let’s Talk Sex event!
Despite requests, this is not a live demo! It is however educational, classy and fun for both men and women! Bring your partner, your girlfriends, a date or even a family member and feel totally comfortable to learn about this loving act! Best of all it’s FREE and you get discounts and coupons to shop at Fascinations. Here is a sneak peak at what I’ll cover and I hope I see you there!
- Do you know how to give a safer sex blow job and maintain your health?
- How can you get the freedom you need to give uninhibited fellatio?
- Learn fun, new erotic tricks to take home that night!
- Feel empowered to pleasure your partner and enjoy yourself just as much!
I had a love affair with my salad last night! Seriously, I make love to the food I make all the time. But I’ve never had the food make love to me the way it did last night! My Nothing Taboo SexTalk group met at www.nourish123.com last night. Located in a clandestine corner of work/living condominiums in Scottsdale, Arizona; it’s a like the lover who turns you inside out!
Ok, maybe it’s just me because I really am a food slut! In a healthy way of course, but I just love food! Good, healthy clean food makes my merry-go-round! I love the way my favorites smell, the texture, the crunchy, the vibration and the way it nourishes not just my stomach but my soul! That’s seriously what this food does for me – nourishes me on all levels! I can feel my body vibrate with enthusiasm, joy and energy.
Last night it was the Bright Lights Kale Salad that took my breath away! The tart kale mixed with a fresh walnut and soft squishy fig melted on my tongue like a first kiss! Sliced strawberries, blueberries, raspberry’s and some light magical dressing caressed my mouth like a good lovers hands! It was so good I totally forgot about the tasty appetizers… air fried sweet potato fries, artichoke hummus, quinoa and purple carrots! And like good sex, one round wasn’t enough but I also wasn’t so full that three or four rounds was impossible! As a matter of fact this food is so nourishing and good, you’re energized and ready to go all night long!
It’s a good thing, because the gluten, dairy free double chocolate cheesecake with a big fat raspberry on top was the most happy ending! Cool and fresh the cheesecake melted on my tongue and slid down my throat with total ecstasy! Who needs a lover when you have Nourish’s aphrodisiac food! Keep watching for the details of my SexTacular Aphrodisiac Seminar series at the restaurant which starts in September!
One of my favorite teaching activities at the university was to ask students to anonymously write down the last time they had unprotected sex. I did this a few weeks before I started the sexually transmitted disease unit. It was far enough ahead they would forget I asked. Then, sure enough when that section came around they would swear up and down they “always use condoms”. I of course knew better, because they had already shared. Then at the end of a highly graphic, stomach turning STD presentation I’d pull out those cards and read them! They went something like this:
- She is my girlfriend I don’t need condoms
- Last night because I didn’t have any
- She is on the pill we don’t need it
- He promised he wouldn’t cum inside me
- We got caught up in the moment
- I’ve only not used a condom once
It was rare that anyone would actually say, “I always use a condom.” People don’t, and of the people that do it’s rare they use condoms consistently and correctly! There are lots of statistics about condom effectiveness but not as many that study the consistent and correct use, because that my friends is what makes condoms effective! Research shows that 30% of people put condoms on incorrectly. A recent study in Canada showed that 94% of males make at least 1 error while putting on the condom before they have sex! One study by the Kinsey institute of college males showed that 30% of men put the condom on upside down and had to flip it and 1/3 reported breakage or slippage during sex. I don’t know about you, but that’s a little risky for my liking!
In the same college study, 60% of the men didn’t discuss condom use and 42% wanted to use condoms but didn’t have any handy. Even more scary, was that 43% of men put the condom on after sex! According to a May 2011 article from the Guttmacher Institute, unintended pregnancy costs U.S. taxpayers roughly $11 billion each year. “The study found that two-thirds of births resulting from unintended pregnancies—more than one million births—are publicly funded, and the proportion tops 80% in a couple of states.” (http://www.guttmacher.org/media/nr/2011/05/19/index.html). These are costly mistakes. Add this to the fact that there are 19 million new STD’s a year and learning to use condoms consistently and correctly becomes a lot more desirable!
So what are the most common mistakes? Researchers at the Rural Center for AIDS/STD Prevention at Indiana University and investigators at The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction have done several studies of condom users and the prevalence of condom-use errors, which they discovered are very common. One study of single, undergraduate male and female college students showed the following mistakes:
|(Percent Reporting the Error or Problem During Sex in the Past 3 Months.) Occurred At Least Once|
|Error/Problem||Male Appliers||Female Appliers|
|Put condom on after starting sex||43%||51%|
|Did not hold tip to leave space at end of condom||40||46|
|Put condom on the wrong side up||30||30|
|Used condom without lubricant||19||26|
|Took condom off before sex was over||15||15|
|Condom slipped off during sex||13||19|
|Lost erection before condom was put on||22||14|
|Lost erection after condom was on and sex had begun||20||20|
|Correct Use of the Male Condom, (2007) an information brochure published by the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS)|
For more information on this topic and to read a recent interview with Dr.SexTalk and College Times visit: Visit College Times – 8/23/2011