ASU SexTalk Oct. 13th!
Feeling like a devil? Our ASU Red Devil students will be tomorrow night after my sex talk! With over 1200 students in the downtown Phoenix ASU campus, it promises to be a standing room only! We have a state of the art classroom in the posh Walter Cronkite building that holds 250 students, but with all the goodies Fascinations FunLove has provided, I bet seats go FAST! Check out the Devils After Dark Facebook page for details!
Talking to college students is absolutely my favorite! I can remember learning all about sex in college, sometimes it was in good ways and others times in not so good! My first Human Sexuality class was a psych course in an auditorium room with 500+ people in it. I still have the vivid memory of seeing women get a C-Section and deliver a child vaginally. I still get the chills and maybe that is why I still haven’t born my own child! I don’t remember learning about all the fun stuff I’ve taught college students for years. Some of my favorites included fun gender topics and games, a Fascinations like scavenger hunt or creative aphrodisiac projects!
ASU students can look forward to their own juicy topics that will include:
- What is Normal Sex
- Anatomy 101
- Super Tricks & Toys!
- Safer Sex & Diseases You Don’t Want
- Nothing Taboo Question & Answer Session
Come learn about some healthy sexual fun and take home some wonderful treats, tricks and information to keep you HEALTHY!
I love my life! You know you have a dream job when you get to talk to strangers, friends and family about the juiciest thing there is – SEX! I shared the Erotic Secrets to Fellatio to a crowd of 75+ people last night and hopefully they all went home and engaged in mind-blowing oral sex!
This group shared the wildest places they’ve ever given or gotten oral sex and it’s a must read! Public parking lots are super popular as are camping or public places! Yes, look at the person across from you and figure they are doing it somewhere sneaky like you are! In the end, we are all sexual beings and everyone likes to get a little adventurous! Phoenicians are no different! Here are my favorite Top 10:
TOP 10 Wildest Places for Fellatio
- Given in a sleeping bag next to my sleeping grandma
- Lot 59 @ ASU until the cop showed up
- 40 feet under while scuba diving
- In a tent surrounded by people who were yelling encouragement
- In a DJ booth at a busy club when I was the DJ
- At the top of the World Trade Center
- Employees office after an interview
- On the Golden Gate Bridge while he was driving
- In the kitchen pantry during a dinner party
- On the roof of a health club
Let’s hope grandma was really sleeping! I also can’t help but wonder if they got the job after that interview? I think I’ll pass on the scuba diving adventure – I love it but it’s not worth drowning for! I answered a lot of great questions about taste, spit or swallow and how to prevent gagging. We also had a great talk about whether to eat asparagus or pineapple to make things tasty! Be sure to visit The Erotic Secrets of Fellatio for some of what you missed!
I want to extend a BIG thanks to Fascinations www.FunLove.com. This locally started store advocates sex education and puts on free community events. Yes, FREE! Nothing is free in life anymore! They do it because they believe in people having a great sexual experience and accessorizing your love life. In an era of Snookie and sex driven reality shows, this may not seem like a big deal folks, but it is! Sex is still a very TABOO topic in our country! So to have a local business provide free sex education is SEXY and you’re missing out if you don’t take advantage! Make a trip to one of their 19 stores in Arizona or Colorado your next date night! Live somewhere else? Search their website with your partner, order some fun goodies and have a sexy night at home!
If you really think about it, Fellatio (aka blow job, oral sex, hummer, etc.) is kind of funny. Think about it, you perform a lollipop act on the protruding organ of a man until it and he explodes! If you don’t know what you’re doing, and let’s face it – a lot of people don’t, then it’s awkward, funny and can be just all around uncomfortable. This is true for both the giver and receiver! I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have at least one horror story related to giving or receiving!
It’s a new day when churches can make innuendos about this sexual act so publicly! But then again, Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky brought an unfounded notoriety to fellatio that will forever mark history! Since then, it’s become more acceptable, more talked about and something that doesn’t make as many people blush. People still blush, don’t get me wrong but that is exactly why I agreed to give a talk on oral sex! Wouldn’t you like to know how to give a really erotic blow job or for your partner to be really good at it? If so, my talk is for you!
Like the sign says, when done masterfully and with some erotic tricks it really can bring a 6 foot man to his knees! This is true if it’s really good or really bad! If you want him to see GOD however, then come my way no pun intended! My talk, Secrets to Erotic Fellatio at the Fascinations Let’s Talk Sex Event on Sept. 15, 2011 will give you some good tips to bring your partner to his knees! This isn’t just for women, it’s for men too! What men do and don’t do can really make or break it for their partner! That’s part of the secret… it takes two to tango!
You can also bring all your questions and here are some of the most common:
- Should I swallow or spit?
- How do I ask her to swallow?
- How can he taste better?
- I don’t know where to start, what do I do?
- I can’t help gagging – what should I do?
I hope to see you there! Or post your questions or funny stories here!
What I did grow up dreaming of being was a teacher! While at first glance “The Erotic Secrets of Fellatio” doesn’t look like something you’d learn in school, it is sex education!
On the ten year anniversary of 9/11, I stand firm in my belief that if people really loved who they are and had mind blowing sex all the time, world peace would be real! Getting everyone to the point of mind blowing sex is going to take my life time and this week I’m starting by teaching Erotic Fellatio at the Fascinations Let’s Talk Sex Event on Sept. 15, 2011 which is FREE to the community!
I could easily give the average ‘Blow Job for Dummies’ class and cover the a,b,c’s but that is too normal and I’m anything but normal or average! What I’m committed to as Dr. SexTalk is global wellness, fun and freedom to bring sexual empowerment and harmony for humanity! You’re probably asking, how in the world do you bring all that to a blow job tonight? It’s EASY! Erotic Fellatio is built on wellness, fun and freedom. And, if you’ve ever performed this act you know it requires a whole lot of harmony, mind focus and talent! These are some of the secrets I’ll be sharing this week at the Fascinations Let’s Talk Sex event!
Despite requests, this is not a live demo! It is however educational, classy and fun for both men and women! Bring your partner, your girlfriends, a date or even a family member and feel totally comfortable to learn about this loving act! Best of all it’s FREE and you get discounts and coupons to shop at Fascinations. Here is a sneak peak at what I’ll cover and I hope I see you there!
- Do you know how to give a safer sex blow job and maintain your health?
- How can you get the freedom you need to give uninhibited fellatio?
- Learn fun, new erotic tricks to take home that night!
- Feel empowered to pleasure your partner and enjoy yourself just as much!
I had a love affair with my salad last night! Seriously, I make love to the food I make all the time. But I’ve never had the food make love to me the way it did last night! My Nothing Taboo SexTalk group met at www.nourish123.com last night. Located in a clandestine corner of work/living condominiums in Scottsdale, Arizona; it’s a like the lover who turns you inside out!
Ok, maybe it’s just me because I really am a food slut! In a healthy way of course, but I just love food! Good, healthy clean food makes my merry-go-round! I love the way my favorites smell, the texture, the crunchy, the vibration and the way it nourishes not just my stomach but my soul! That’s seriously what this food does for me – nourishes me on all levels! I can feel my body vibrate with enthusiasm, joy and energy.
Last night it was the Bright Lights Kale Salad that took my breath away! The tart kale mixed with a fresh walnut and soft squishy fig melted on my tongue like a first kiss! Sliced strawberries, blueberries, raspberry’s and some light magical dressing caressed my mouth like a good lovers hands! It was so good I totally forgot about the tasty appetizers… air fried sweet potato fries, artichoke hummus, quinoa and purple carrots! And like good sex, one round wasn’t enough but I also wasn’t so full that three or four rounds was impossible! As a matter of fact this food is so nourishing and good, you’re energized and ready to go all night long!
It’s a good thing, because the gluten, dairy free double chocolate cheesecake with a big fat raspberry on top was the most happy ending! Cool and fresh the cheesecake melted on my tongue and slid down my throat with total ecstasy! Who needs a lover when you have Nourish’s aphrodisiac food! Keep watching for the details of my SexTacular Aphrodisiac Seminar series at the restaurant which starts in September!
I thought I had seen it all until I stumbled upon the infamous Cock-n-Ball doughnut at Voodoo Doughnuts in Portland, Oregon!
They promise the Magic is in the Hole, but in this case I’m thinking the magic is in the er, shaft! This tasty glazed and chocolate covered doughnut is enough to make your mouth water, your stomach growl and your loins scream with pleasure! The sugar content alone will give you enough short bursts of energy to not only finish this bad boy, but go for marathon rounds with your partner!
You’ll wait in line for this delicacy day or night on any day of the year! That is half the fun because you can enjoy the tantalizing wait with your mate, or who knows! Your mouthwatering desire may find you another doughnut loving mate!
A Woman’s Perspective On Play…that is…from DrSexTalk.
Sexual preferences should be made known early in a relationship. I don’t know about you, but in my experience I don’t see this happening with authenticity and honesty. It seems easy for some and very difficult for others. It would be easy to assume men are more able to do this, but that isn’t always true. Many men desire kinkier and dirtier sex from woman and just can’t ask. How do you ask the mother of your kids and wife of 15 years to tie you up and play domination? Many can’t and end up satisfying this with other outlets.
Men will have to speak for themselves, but here are some things to consider about women. The thought – “men have to have sex to fall in love and women have to fall in love to have sex” carries some weight. Many women want to tap into a kinkier side but fear stops them. Emotional security about themselves and in their relationship is a huge factor. Their worried thoughts include: “Good girls don’t do that.” “Will he still love me?” “What if I don’t like it and he leaves me?” “Is it a sin?”
If you haven’t discussed it drop hints… explore sexual fantasies in fun conversations or games, ask in a love note, go to the adult store, rent an adult film, browse the sex section at the bookstore, search the internet… generate conversation but don’t let it scare you off from asking. A “no” now may not always be a no! There are many variables but here are a few ideas that make opening the door easier.
1. TALK, TALK, TALK but not just about the “fantasy”. Really understand the core concern and address it!
2. Emotional security is built when a man has integrity, is emotionally available – willing to be intimate and vulnerable; and the woman feels supported. (For some women vacuuming is support!)
3. Assure them they will not fall from grace in your eyes as that “good girl” or the apple of your eye, or Princess – whatever it is!
Keep in mind just asking might be all you need to do. Your “Princess” might have a pair of handcuffs she’s been dying to try on you…
Why do people cheat on their partners? The reasons could fill this page – but for the most part it’s because something is missing in the relationship.
Usually men are missing sexual satisfaction and women are missing emotional connection. It’s not always the case, but this is very common. Studies showed that men used to cheat more than women, but nowadays women are cheating almost as much.
What is missing for people that they seek it in another person? Men will talk about how much they love their wives yet scour chat rooms or FriendFinder websites for women to have sex with. They’ll often say their wives won’t do more in bed or they wouldn’t dare ask their wife to do what they really want. One man told me “She is the mother of my children, how can I ask her to dominate me sexually?”
Women will confide they love their husbands but don’t feel like he pays attention to her and as a result doesn’t feel connected to him emotionally. Women are vulnerable for a new male friend who listens, dotes, smiles at her and makes her feel special all over again. Small talk turns to friendship, to companionship, to flirting, to dirty flirting and one thing leads to another. Suddenly emotional needs are met and infidelity is a reality.
There is so much to say on this topic, where does one even start? Are we even meant to be monogamous? Is kissing cheating? Is dirty flirting cheating or does it depend on your intentions? What about chat rooms? Text messages? Should you tell your partner? What if it only happened once and you’ll never do it again? What are the signs of cheating? Can a relationship recover from infidelity? Is it true once a cheater always a cheater?