Gemini Photo from Flickr
May 21 to June 20
“Thinking Butterfly”
I THINK … and so I AM and so I will BE.
Element: AIR (intellectual, communicative)
Modality: MUTABLE (flexible, changeable)
Polarity: Yang/Masculine
Ruling Planets: Mercury
Zodiac Symbol: The Twins
Harmonious compatibility: Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Libra, Aquarius, Aires, Taurus
Difficult compatibility: Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Turbulent compatibility: Scorpio, Capricorn
Opposite (mirror image) with: Sagittarius
Sexy Gemini Traits: Communicative, witty, intellectual, cheerful, adaptable, versatile, curious, eloquent, youthful, lively, playful, informative and perceptive.
Devilish Gemini Traits: Nervous, tense, superficial, inconsistent, cunning, inquisitive, superficial, mischievous and gossips.
Gemini FEMALE Gemini Male How To Attract a Gemini
Gemini Sexstrology
Gemini represents developing our self-awareness. There is no better way to do this then through sexuality – via the brain of course! If you know a Gemini then you know intelligence IS their self-aware Universe! Thinking is like oxygen to a Gemini. The Gemini will be a voracious reader of books, newspapers, and magazines and is probably a classic internet-information-addict. They will probably have a book in every room, including their car and they read several books at one time. Oh, and don’t expect them to be a front-to-back reader either, it’s just not necessary. They just cannot help it. Their brain goes a million miles a minute, never stops for more than a second and they are off again. This includes talking, which more often than not is non-stop! If you’ve ever had a conversation with a Gemini, you know exactly what I’m talking about! I’m warning you now, if you like long, laborious sex with lots of cuddling in peace and quiet you better ditch that Gemini now! You must understand the building blocks of this sign to truly appreciate them in the bedroom.
A return to the Sex Garden reminds us Aires started the seeds and Taurus nurtured their growth. Now it’s time for the self-awareness of Gemini! The seedlings have sprouted and are becoming aware of who they are, their environment and their place in the world. To do this they must understand everything! A Gemini child will start asking “Why?” as soon as it can talk and probably whispers “Why?” as the travel six feet under. They cannot understand enough of anything and will never stop seeking to understand it all. Conceptualize a black hole. This is a Gemini trying to learn and understand everything and it’s never enough.
It is IMPOSSIBLE to figure them out from one moment to the next so don’t even try. It’s not that they mean to be so wishy-washy, it’s just that something else they learned or understand swayed what they thought! Yes, they are true debaters and politicians! Their mind is as fluid as water! Put it in the fridge and it will cool, freeze it and they will become ice. Blow lots of wind and they will scatter in drops. This is a mutable sign, which means they are very changeable. If you expect a Gemini to be what they were yesterday, more or less five minutes ago, you’ll be the frustrated one! A Gemini will aggravate the best of any sign with their incessant chatter and their gnat-like attention span. Everyone needs a charming Gemini friend who forgets what he or she is saying mid-sentence! It makes life so much more fun. Your best offense and defense is an attitude of forgiveness. So what if they can’t remember the exact day of your birthday after twenty years. They might remember in ten minutes or tomorrow. A mind like theirs is so busy increasing awareness and connecting to the immediate environment they can’t busy themselves with such trivial details. It’s nothing personal.
Gemini’s gift is bringing basic awareness into focus for everyone. They are so objective when it comes to self-awareness they’re able to help others see themselves in a new way. A Gemini will help you become aware of what you’re trying to do in any area of your life and what will be involved. This is why they make amazing teachers, writers and communicators. Their ultimate quest is to gather as much information about the world as possible and share it. Deny a Gemini the ability to communicate or do this and you deprive them of the very air they breathe! You are better off just taking the journey with them or become the solid ground their kite-like mind can retreat to when needed!
So just how do you bed a chatty-Kathy, busy-bodied mind like Gemini? Talk, talk and talk. Then talk some more. You probably can’t talk enough or ask enough questions. They LOVE questions and the more you let them ask the better. This is like drawing a fly to honey! Most importantly you should understand the only way to get in a Gemini’s pants is direct route from the brain, to the mouth to the organs! Other signs, like Scorpio might work in the opposite direction, but not Gemini. This really does make sense if you consider that the largest sexual organ is the brain. If you want in their heart or pants you better massage that organ like no other!
They are drawn to anything intellectual, witty, or humorous. Gemini’s are the inventors of Aural Sex or Lexical Intercourse! Lure them with some witty discourse and throw a Webster’s dictionary under the covers and you’ll have a verbal romp like no other! Teach them a new word with every new position or talk dirty as they explore your body and you’ll send that Gemini to lexical heaven! You’re better off controlling this proverbial chatterbox because if you don’t, they’ll ask you if saw the day’s headline right in the heat of the moment. They can kill the hottest of moments by talking. Not because they are bored (although you better keep them busy or they will be bored), but because while they are busy satiating their body their mind is thinking about something else. There isn’t a moment to waste in the world of Gemini! The best way to prevent this is pleasure them to the point they’re only option is to succumb to the sensations and shutting off their mind, even if for a moment! Scorpio can do this like a pro becuase their sexual intensity engulfs the butterfly-mind and Gemini is so tongue tied they can’t speak.
So what makes this sign irresistible and a sexual experience like no other? First and foremost you won’t find a more versatile lover in the zodiac! Gemini’s HATE to be bored and will create fun or mishap just to prevent this. Their lightening fast minds think of fun things, places, people and activities before you can blink! Life will NEVER be boring with this twin and if you have a woman – you get two women in one! That can be good or bad depending on your mindset. They are lively lovers in the bedroom and that twin thing can be quiet fun. Your charming Gemini is the girl-next-doorl that everyone loves, who entertains often and perfectly. She is also the same girl who gave you the blowjob of your life 10 mintues before the guests arrive. While your pulling up your pants and catching your breath, she’ll answer the door with a smile like she’s been baking apple pie all day!
They are as whimsical in the bedroom as they are in life. They thrive on anything new, change and thrill after thrill! They are the masters of quickies and will have you trying sexual positions you’ve never heard of; aphrodisiac foods that set your pants on fire and probably have a video stash that will shock you. No one can multi-task mentally or physically like a Gemini and you couldn’t ask for a better dexterity in the bedroom! They are spontaneous, artful, amusing, and have the most curious bravado you’ve ever seen. They are simply irresistible, IF you can maintain them mentally and their Machiavellian ways don’t drive you mad.
All the other air signs – Aquarius and Libra and other Gemini’s will manage this well. Keep in mind a Gemini-Gemini match can be great when it’s good or horrible when it’s bad. Too much of a good thing isn’ always best. Taurus has more than enough tenacity and patience. Cancer is terribly moody but Gemini’s mood shift like the wind so this is a feasible combination. Cancer is so soft on the inside Gemini will have a tendency to jab at their soft spot and not realize they are doing it. A royal Leo will light a fire inside Gemini and sex will be hot, but Leo’s pride will constantly be wounded by Gemini’s quicksilver tongue. Leo needs to be first and Gemini will forget this on any given day. Virgo’s have the stick-to-it-ness a Gemini needs as well as the punctuality and organization. Things might start well because Virgo organizes Gemini and the Gemini relaxes Virgo but it gets pretty dull and frustrating quick. Sagittarius, a fire sign, is a worldly thinker and traveler and will be a source of adventure for Gemini! All in all this is a good combination but as polar opposites they can butt heads and wind exacerbates a fire! Pisces intrigues Gemini but only because their emotional, sensitive and intuitive pessimism is so different from their thinking, objective, logical and positive selves. Pisces delves into the world of the unknowns, which Gemini can tell you all about; but the slippery fish will drive Gemini mad. Not only are they super sensitive, their sarcastic, cynical nature weighs heavy on Gemini. Gemini is so literal they often need bricks to the head and the vague, ambiguous ways of Pisces are troublesome. Which means Scorpio will be the sex of their lives but also the death of them! Scorpio’s mysterious, controlling and power hungry ways wither away at Gemini! If they don’t drown under the Scorpio tidal wave, they will suffocate in the grounding earthquake of Capricorn who is anything but fun to Gemini with their serious, responsible and hardworking ways.
Gemini FEMALE
The Gemini female might be one of the most complex creatures of the zodiac with her dual butterfly personality. She is literal to a fault and absolutely requires connecting mentally. If you’re up for the journey from her head to her heart and then her pants, it’s a great ride! This Gemini girl will charm the pants off you with her witty intellect, gregarious personality and charming smile before you ever charm her! She’ll probably be bored the first five minutes talking to you so you’ll always need to bring your best game. It’s worth it because this is one sign that doesn’t mind giving oral sex during a football game – as long as you talk dirty of course! You must keep up with her mentally AND physically or she will fly off in a flash. She is one woman that values her freedom and space as much as you. She won’t crowd you, which means you can’t crowd her but you MUST be the ground she can visit as needed. If you’re as flaky and flitting as she is, it’s difficult. Envision the beauty of two butterflies sharing nectar, flying with each other and dabbling one flower to the next. Gorgeous but it doesn’t have any staying power, consistency or grounded-ness! Be the Romeo to her Juliet and you’ll have a woman you can get enough of because hands down she’ll have more sexual energy than any other and probably you!
Gemini MALE
The Gemini male has his finger on the pulse of everything new, exciting and titliating. He has to have the newest of new things, be hip and up on everything cool. The Gemini male embodies the versatile, chameleon ways in his environment. They live by their own rules and are the typical 14-21 year old teenage-adult bachelors most all their lives. They live for the thrill of the deal, excitement and can be an eternal playboy. Gemini’s have a reputation for not sticking to one partner and this is usually either very true, or not true at all. They can be cunning and manipulative with underhanded behaviors. As a twin they can be your perfect mate during the night and have lunchtime dalliances by day! They can be loyal if you can entertain them and they can entertain themselves with you. You should always be mentally challenging or frankly, they will find something better to do. You should always be on the ede of something new, exciting or different to meet this need. They love hourglass figures, spanking, mind games, high heels, peepshows, strip teases, swinging or swapping, lipstick, tag teams, role play or threesomes.
How to Attract a GEMINI
If you’re trying to attract a Gemini visit a local event, library, bookstore or Internet café. Wear your “smart” glasses and have a Scrabble or Webster’s dictionary in your bag. Sit next to them and ignore them. Then causally make some offhanded witty remark. If you’re good and it’s witty they’ll pay attention to you. They are like butterflies and you have to catch them with a net! If you dive in and try to grab them like you would an Aquarius, it won’t work! They will fly off faster than you can blink. You have to let them come to you and land. A butterfly seeks the exact nectar they want and they will feed when they are ready to feed. The key is to provide the right food… words, wit, intellect, humor, and brain-gasm after brain-gasm. Talk to them, befriend them and be their best friend. Let them ask you questions, probe your mind and analyze the world. Before they know it you will be Scrabbling their panties to the floor or kneeling on the floor while he’s building his next word! You might think the hard part is over – it isn’t. It’s JUST begun. You will now have the task of remaining forever exciting and entertaining because if you aren’t some one else will be! There are a lot of flowers to draw nectar from! Keep talking and stimulating them mentally and you’ll have the most physical and mental mind-fuck of a life time!
