Pisces – Feeling Fish

Pisces Photo from Flickr

Pisces Photo from Flickr

“Feeling Fish”
February 19 to March 20

I BELIEVE…and if it’s not HERE NOW it’s OVER THERE…

Element:  WATER (emotional, intuitive)
Modality:  MUTABLE (flexible, changeable)
Polarity:  Yin/Feminine
Ruling Planet:  Neptune (modern), Jupiter (traditional)
Zodiac Symbol:  The Fishes

Most compatible with:  Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus
Least compatible with:  Gemini, Sagittarius, Leo, Libra
Opposite (mirror image) with:  Virgo

SEXY PISCES TRAITS: Sensitive and compassionate, intuitive, psychic, imaginative, artsy talents, creative, incredibly insightful, very sensual, into novelty, gallantry, peaceful, dreamer, rapturous, embodies ecstasy, and into the mystical or metaphysical.

DEVILISH PISCES TRAITS: Escapist, changeable ethics, gullible, into occultism, introverted, impressionable, self-tormenting, fears dejection, ritualistic, sacrificial, self-pity, evasive, secretive, seclusion, and unrealistic.

SextacularⓇ Astrology for Pisces

Have you ever dreamed of visiting unknown galaxies and realities? Are you curious about what exists on The Other side of the soul or consciousness? If so “swim” with a Pisces lover and you might experience it all! The gift Pisces gives is to synchronize a lover’s true being and merge it with that Other Side and All That Is! I can’t think of a better place to see beyond the Omnipresent than in the bedroom! Your Pisces lover can swim through the muddiest waters going beyond any physical or social reality; beyond the unconscious and beyond everything we know! You better know how to swim and be willing to go places you’ve never dreamed of if you’re going to bed this lover! Pisces will laser into the source of what it takes to synchronize you with your soul lessons. This is captivating and almost addictive for some Zodiac lovers. For others it’s terribly frightening because they are not accustomed to the world of the unknown. Some deny these soul lessons and miss the ecstasy of a Pisces altogether – in or out of the bedroom! If you’re ready to evolve on any level, especially sexually – then catch a Pisces! Therein lies the problem, catching a fish isn’t easy!

Understanding them isn’t either. This Fish barely understands itself. Sex with a Pisces is just like that – transcendent beyond what you can imagine or understand, and oh, so slippery! You really can’t describe a Pisces sexually you just have to experience them. Does all this sound confusing? Join the rest of us! Excluding the other water signs – Scorpio and Cancer, you understand exactly what most people understand about Pisces – very little. Delving into the ethereal realm of Pisces takes faith! To experience them sexually is to connect with that Oneness beyond what you know. Being able to blindly swim along with them is an adventure into a universe of ecstasy and dreams. It almost sounds great doesn’t it? Well, just imagine going on a vacation to a remote Caribbean island blindfolded without a tour guide! Even if you are the adventurous kind – your heart will skip a beat when you’re leaping off a cliff into unknown waters!

When it comes to love and sex most people stick with comfortable boundaries because it’s what they know and it’s safe. Being vulnerable isn’t always safe. The reality is the Pisces fish swims in oceans without boundaries and is constantly vulnerable! This is their world and they live in it very comfortably. The question is can you? Whether sex ventures into the erotic, unknown or even forbidden you’ll naturally want to reach out and hold onto them. The problem is how do you hold onto a slippery fish?

This is the secret to a Pisces union in sex or love – you can’t hold on! Their dualistic nature has them going one way one minute and another way the next minute. As soon as you think you know which way they are going, they go the other way! There’s really no better way to describe this than to think of it literally. Imagine trying to chase a fish in the ocean – very difficult! It’s the same with your Pisces lover so don’t try to catch them! This however, does not mean they can’t be caught – they can. Some people catch fish by hand which is violently shocking and the Fish will flip-flop with all it’s being to resist this. Either the fisherman wins and Pisces becomes lifeless and lost or it flops back into the freedom of the water. This volatile catch-n-release union will be a constant challenge for both of you! The most common way to catch a fish is to dangle bait in the water and wait for a bite. The only issue here is you might wait forever for that fish to bite, if it bites – it’s your risk! Just know, when they WANT to bite and be caught, they’ll bite and let themselves be caught. This union will be one of choice but still on their terms and only when they are ready. Why not take the path of least resistance with a Pisces? Just swim along with them wherever they go. Don’t chase or try to catch them – just BE with them in the beautiful way they glide through oceans of dreamy ecstasy.

So what does this all have to do with sex? A lot actually – Pisces brings you to the center of the most spiritual ecstasy we experience as humans. They teach us it’s time for something new and their deepest sexual yearnings will trigger deeper yearnings in you. Pisces is also the lesson of closure, letting go and making room for new cycles. Empty the baggage from your closet because if you don’t you it’s likely they will. Unfinished business such as trauma, rape, abuse, or other sexual fears will be exposed either consciously or unconsciously. You can either choose to swim in these muddy waters to heal them with your Pisces lover or resist. It’s sort of like choosing to sail on a beautiful day or sailing in the eye of a storm. This is part of the difficulty in dealing with a Pisces. You’re never sure what you’re getting – the realist or the dreamer?

Keep in mind a realist-Pisces will only conform to them self – not you! They will in a very matter of fact manner see the glass as half empty or not even see a glass. On the other hand, they have an air about them of unconscious motivation and often disappear into a dreamland. This is really about deeper desires for something greater than themselves. Many lovers can’t handle it when Pisces leaves the Now to journey for that something else. They complain Pisces is off in their head daydreaming, lost in some made up story or worry instead of being with them. For some Fish this escape is sex –secretive activities, living out fantasies, forbidden desires or involvements. Keeping a Fish loyal is going to be difficult if their partner is not spiritually evolved. Pisces will do anything to escape and alcohol is one of their favorites but so are excessive hobbies, substances, gambling, and occultism. Living in a freeform ocean is not for everyone.

This ecstatic Pisces rapture of detachment and illusions are lessons for even the most seasoned lovers. Most importantly, the dreamy world of Pisces is confusing and challenging and not a place for clingy or needy lovers! If this is you, look for an earth sign it will be a more peaceful experience. If you’ve read this far and still aren’t sure what a Pisces is like sexually, then you’re right where you should be. It would be difficult to say because everyone is at a different place in his or her evolutionary journey. Your experience with Pisces will be defined by wherever you are.

If you’re open and willing to experiment you might find yourself living out the female Pisces fantasy of being a prostitute or having sex in a porn shop booth. If you’re holding onto sexual pain the male Pisces may slowly dredge this to the top with his compassionate and sensual lovemaking that will heal if you let it. Sexually, Pisces tends to like more seasoned lovers and are comfortable scraping the bottom of the ocean floor for what appeases them. It’s not that they don’t like that Little Mermaid or Prince – they do. It’s just if this beauty comes with drama they will avoid it at all costs! They tend to go for a more gothic, mysterious look. Think latex, corsets, garters and stockings. They typically like hardcore porn more than most, slaving and active or passive bondage. They might even get into humiliation. (They probably won’t tell you this until you’re in the inner layers of their heartspace!) They are certainly into oral sex – anything wet and mysterious for The Fish. Should you experience the glorious tongue of a Pisces man you can expect a pearl necklace in return. This may also take you into the world of kink, tag-teams, strangers or even prostitutes. It’s really about anything mysterious or unknown that will help them escape into that other world – and how far you will go with them!

We must not forget the flip side of this mysterious sex partner. Their world is full of emotion and they will cause yours to rise and fall like large waves. If you’ve ever surfed you’ll know what an amazing experience this is. Those air signs that live in their heads like Gemini and Aquarius will be enamored and drawn to this emotional sign because it’s so foreign. Frankly, not much unlike the other signs they’ll either learn to ride the wave or be pulled under by the tide. No other sign is as sensual and loving to the point of rapturous ecstasy. They will love you like you’ve never been loved and show you the other mysterious sex galaxy!


This self-made man lives by his own design and a partner will need corroborate with his views or it will be a bumpy ride! This male will always pursue his own ambitions and he expects that you understand this. The Pisces male is the epitome of “self-fulfilling” prophecy. He never tries to do something he just exists as if he’s already achieved what he wants. Not so mysteriously he achieves it all, but he could have told you that. As a male in a feminine sign, he has the ability to imagine his intentions into reality. He also exemplifies love and change as a mutable water sign. In love, this zodiac drifter does not want to own or be owned. He does not fall in love- he enters into love. “Cling-free-love” is the theme of anything they do, including their past. If their past doesn’t suit their mythical self-image they will leave no trail or evidence of its existence. A word for the wise – that could mean you! Look for signs of this in his familial relationships. Like they psychologist B.F. Skinner – his love is based on reward and punishment. Without warning or discussion he will either tune in or tune out a partner based on her behavior. If he likes it and is pleased, she gets all his attention. If he’s at all displeased he simply swims the other way. Partners must adapt and be aware of this. The good news is he doesn’t pull any punches. You’ll be very clear when he’s pleased because his full-on attention is glorious and flattering. On the flip side when he disappears he does so without warning, rhyme or reason. As soon as you think you’ve figured out why and strategize a plan, he swims back around as if he never left. Instantly you’re drawn back into his dreamy world. It works like magic because this man has mastered this manipulative science. It’s how he gets whatever he wants. This fishy behavior is frustrating unless you’ve accepted that this is his dualistic nature and you won’t understand it. It’s a choice to swim along with him this way or risk one day he’ll swim away and never come back. One thing for sure, no one gets in his heart space unless they can love without expectation. If this doesn’t work for you then get out as fast as you can – he won’t mind. There are plenty of fish in the sea and he knows he’s a good catch. Sexually very little shocks the Pisces male but on the same token nothing fascinates him beyond reason. Of all the signs, he’s the least moved by sex because he is the one who already wanders into the Other Side or Dark Sides. He can take it or leave it, which is why you might wait a long time for him to make a move. Friendship is important because he will avoid drama at all cost. Getting to know you is one way to prevent unnecessary involvement in drama he just doesn’t need. This doesn’t mean he likes innocent fresh virgins – he actually prefers a bit of wear and tear or a seasoned woman. He’d pick a Madonna over a virgin any day. Although he’s usually a neat, prim and proper guy his chosen mate may be the platinum blonde with dark roots and questionable style. He doesn’t care because he transforms her from the inside out. The only real way to get his attention is to not try to get his attention. Let him know you’re interested and he’ll swim around when he feels like it. Be sure he knows your willing to venture into the unknown worlds with him. When it’s appropriate allude to your dark side in the bedroom, sexy corsets, dirty movies, or your love of oral sex and he’ll come around. There is no doubt about it when this Pisces man puts his mind and body into having sex or making love, he’ll send you into space and you’ll never forget it. The biggest cardinal rule with this man is no clinging or crowding – unless you want to get rid of him. Visually, feel sexy inside because he sees right through you and make sure you have a fresh pedicure with sexy Come-Fuck-Me shoes. A little red lipstick, dark nails and a garter will get things off to a great start with this voyeuristic Pisces man!


The Pisces woman is the Prima Dona of all the women before her – a culmination of every other Zodiac sign! She will either emanate this quietly and reserved or you won’t be able to miss the craziness! Simply being alive is a drama for this woman with an impressionable, overwhelming and high-strung nature. She is the paradox of every experience and it takes a certain kind of lover to handle this. The Queen Escapist is unpredictable and will turn a cold shoulder to get whatever she wants in love or sex. Lovers are pulled into her rapture and dreamy illusions. Often times it’s to save this fragile Fish and other times it’s for the sheer experience of that Other galaxy of love. She has a delusional hope of love and is strangely attracted to the very manly-man she despises. A partner must have the ability to meet her emotional needs, take care of her materialistically and be a sexual dynamo! Anything less is just not enough for her. She is very sexual and may have odd fetishes but whether they exist outside her dream world is another issue. You’re never going to know if you’re dealing with that realist or dreamer. If you’re going to catch this woman you better catch her and be ready to care for her. Otherwise, let her swim to you. She favors young men because they align with her dreamy vision of love yet she often marries otherwise or, she marries many men in the quest to find Prince Charming. When things don’t go the way she imagines in her dreamy illusions it throws her off course. This is true of sex where in dreamland kisses are perfect, clothes peel off without hassle and sex is magical without mishaps. In reality, the sweaty smells and body fluids of carnivorous love may gross her out and fuel her squeamish nature. To absolve herself of this she may soak herself in bubble bath or champagne, which can be problematic. Just to you – she’s perfectly content in her dreamland of bubbles. This Zodiac lover will show you worlds you’ve never known; stir trouble in your heart and pocket book and love you deeper than the ocean floor. She will be difficult to resist because her mysterious allure will draw you in. She will be impossible to resist if she decides she wants you. She will cast some magical spell composed of her masterful manipulation to draw you in. It might be indirect, direct, instant or take some time, but she will catch you. It might be years down the road before you realize this Queen Fish had you thinking you caught her! Go ahead, step into the Pisces Ocean – you may never come up for air!