Sagittarius – Intuitive Archer

SAGITTARIUS

“Intuitive Archer”November 22 to December 21

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Element: FIRE (enthusiastic, high energy)

Modality: MUTABLE (flexible, changeable)

Polarity: Yang/Masculine

Ruling Planets: Jupiter

Zodiac Symbol: The Archer, the Centaur

Most compatible with: Aries, Leo, Libra, Aquarius

Least compatible with: Virgo, Pisces, Taurus, Cancer

Opposite (mirror image) with: Gemini

Sexy Sagittarius Traits: truth seeker, self confident, generous, high libido, optimistic, freedom loving, jovial, romantic, broad minded, self satisfaction, largesse, successful and genius.

Devilish Sagittarius Traits:selfish, dogmatic, irresponsible, extravagant, exaggeration, nonchalance, insensitive, lacks tact and philanderer.    

Sagittarius Sexstrology

If you are content right where you, knowing what you know and doing what you do; then you might not want to mingle with a Sagittarius!  This natural born seeker of truth, meaning and the universal purpose of things will stop nothing short of discovering all this.  Simply put this is a sign that lives full out!  They want to experience all things in as many ways as possible.  Gemini, the polar opposite of Sagittarius starts this quest but their journey is just simple curiosity seeking to learn.  Once they taste the nectar, they flitter off like a butterfly to the next flower and so on and so forth they live their life.  Sagittarius doesn’t just want to learn it they want to experience it and totally understand it.  They might have a longer overnight stay with that poppy flower or set up residence in a rose garden.  Then oops!  Look at that erotic Lily that is calling their name, and Bam they’re gone to that garden!

Welcome to the world of Sagittarius – the Mavens and Mavericks of the zodiac!  They will not miss an opportunity for experience, adventure or travel.  They live the freewheeling life most people just dream of.  This sign lives large and you can’t miss them.  Whether it’s an extravagant display, charming self-confidence or a female’s regal figure they are not to be missed!  Wealth is almost a birthright for this naturally deserving sign.  Ruled by lucky Jupiter it isn’t hard for most of them to come by.  They are natural leaders and unintentionally acquire followers not always seeking to be the center of attention, but liking it.  Males can be very romantic and are prone to grand displays of affection.  It can be to the likes of what you see in movies and just what a girl dreams about.  They have an un-relinquished amount of energy and the charm of a renegade who is out to have fun in life!  They are a one-person parade you do not want to miss.

Above all else, a Sagittarius partner has an insatiable desire to explore the world and life.  They will always opt to go somewhere new, try something different or discover and re-discover things.  They are honest in their communication and expect the same from others.  You can trust this sign because if they shake your hand or give you their word, they mean it.  They also deliver.  Which is exactly why they can carry the entitled persona they often do.  Others see as snooty or superior.  Maybe it is and maybe it isn’t?  However, if you were an Archer, half man half horse and aimed your arrow hitting the bull’s-eye every time wouldn’t you be feeling superior?

Thus far they sound like a perfect partner don’t they?  Well, not so fast!  They don’t just aim their arrow at you or only hit your bull’s-eye!  The Sagittarius male is considered the Bachelor of the Zodiac.  True to their zest of life they also desire to experience women and usually not just one!  A young Sagittarian can be quite the Hugh Hefner and may or may not mellow out with age.  The Sagittarian woman is so fun with an air about her to be treated like a Queen that she’s never without an abiding male.  Or many males – she is one who will keep riding the train versus getting off for a permanent stop!  She’ll make many stops along the way of course.  The female often has anxiety and self-esteem problems but always has a suitor who overlooks this because they hate to be alone.  Despite their core need for freedom Sag men hate being alone and usually aren’t for long.  In the early years the rotating door of women will fill this need.  If that’s not available they likely have a group of core friends or will rally their family around them.

Be careful, they may be chasing another exciting woman or man they can’t refuse and you probably won’t know it.  They have a way of making you feel like you’re the one and only in their life and it’s as alluring as their adventurous charm!  Lovers beware!  The lady next door or man in the next office feels the same way!  Their eyes will roam like a hunter that watches his prey and it doesn’t matter if you’re right there.  Your Sagittarian man may have sent you flowers today but last week he sent her chocolate.  You will want to watch and see if your Sagittarian interest has sowed their seeds – man or woman.  If so, they are totally capable of a long-term commitment with someone who won’t stifle their freedom or need for adventure.  It doesn’t mean however they will stop looking.  A partner will have to keep on their toes – but is that really such a bad thing?

Do they still sound like the perfect partner?  They might be if you don’t mind waiting in line for their attention once they have chosen you.  Oh, and by the way THEY will chose YOU.  It won’t be the other way around.  Remember the pointed arrow?  Well they can aim at lots of prey but once they zero in and pull the bow, you’re a done deal.  They will nail you dead center with their bravado, honesty, charm, sense of adventure and verve for living in the fun lane.  This isn’t so bad!  However, like a true animal of the wild, now that they have you, they will pull you along and nibble at you when it suits them!  This is the waiting in line part.

Sagittarians will likely have many projects (usually unfinished for the men) or be dedicated to so many causes that you’re the last in line to get their attention.  They have big things to attend to in life and although you’re on their list, you’ll just need to stand in line and wait like the others!  This in itself will almost rule out a Leo who must be #1 to their mate at all times in all ways or a Aries who can’t wait and is all about themselves.  This isn’t impossible but it isn’t easy for some and will never come easy if it doesn’t right from the start.  Just when you need to be assured of your place in line, they will be running out the door to do something for someone else.  When you express that your feelings are hurt they’ll say something blunt and honest like “You really want me to stay here and watch TV instead of doing Meals On Wheels?”  Of course, you’ll feel like the biggest heel in the world and willingly go to the end of the line.  In order to be with this sign you need to understand your important place in their world and deal with it.  You really are at the front of the line, which is why they can address everyone behind you.

They will make it worth your while and lavish you with attention!  A very generous sign, they do not hesitate to spend money to show people how they feel.  When it comes to money they will not hold back when it’s something they want, which can be confusing.  It was just yesterday your Sag male did his own plumbing.  He refused to pay the $75 assessment fee because he already knew what was wrong.  With his dogmatic beliefs and wrench in hand, he fixed it himself.  Never mind it took days, more money and he had to call the plumber anyway.  He won’t care, it was the right thing to do and you won’t get him to budge.  The man same man will drop a few thousands of dollars on a bicycle during a sudden shopping spree the next day!  You may be shaking your head but it makes perfect sense to him.  They want what they want, when they want it!  That includes you!

Their sudden outburst of temper and fast recovery will jolt you into reality.  If this doesn’t do it their dogmatic and often rigid beliefs might!  It’s surprising how old fashioned their moral compass can be but you’ll just need to adjust.  It’s usually their way or no way.  The Sagittarian female will be strong willed and demand control whereas the Sag man’s- man will just take it.  He is the epitome of that rugged Marlboro man and don’t try to tell him otherwise.  Sex with this sign will be an adventure if you’re not afraid of living on the edge of abandon.

This adventure however, isn’t for everyone!  It may not be stable enough for a Taurus woman and their spontaneous nature would torture a planning Virgo.  Although sex would be hot with an Aries, the ultra hot fire will burn itself out.  Leo will demand to be #1 and try to dominate when Sag just wants to be equals.  This leaves air signs, which are the ideal matches for Sagittarius.  As the polar opposite and ideal marriage partner, there is instant attraction with a Gemini.  The sparks may never fade because they have the same verve for life.  They are the King and Queen of sexting, steamy phone calls, love notes or instant messaging whenever they get a chance.  They both value freedom and adventure and as many ideas as she has, he has the energy to carry them out.  Libra is also a natural partner offering long-term soothing affairs and Aquarius requires the same freedom and friendship instantly bonding them. 

How to Attract a Sagittarius Woman

This woman likes to play the lottery with men!  She’ll buy ticket after ticket and scratch you into a frenzy without ever winning the jackpot! You won’t care in the beginning because her free loving spirit and sexually adventurous side will have you at the word GO!  You’ll wonder what you’ve been missing all these years and thrilled to have found her.  The irony of a Sagittarian woman is that she can’t be alone yet requires total freedom. She must be able to come and go and do as she pleases, traveling the world and experiencing what she likes.  She’ll expect you to be there for her but she may not return the favor.  She is vain and can be self absorbed and certainly selfish.  She’ll always want people around to entertain or will expect that you entertain her.  As a lover she’ll demand your friendship and be impossible to control.  It may be easy to step over this stuff in the beginning because you’re still high from the great sexual rendezvous you had in the park last night. Over time that will wear off as every day life takes over and it rises to the top.

If you can handle being with this woman with a day-to-day approach to the long term, you’ve found an exciting partner!  She will offer a refreshing; lightheartedness to love and her impulsive nature may light you on fire!  She is spontaneous, carefree and willing to go anywhere, do anything and try it all!  She’ll mystify you and typically leap twice before she even looks back.  Join her parade and life will be full of surprises and fun.  

How to Attract a Sagittarius Man

Ladies, watch out for this charming and adventurous man!  When he sets eyes on you he’ll knock the socks right off you, right along with your pants!  Before you can resist he’ll take you right then and there and not stop until your begging him for more.  If he really likes you, he’ll take you again before you can catch your breath!  Seriously, would you expect anything else from a mythical Centaur hunter who is half man and half horse?  And what more could a woman want?

Not so fast ladies!  Don’t let his ability to go all nightlong fool you.  Unless otherwise balanced in his chart, sex is typically not a deep experience for them as much as it is a necessary release.  Of all the signs he requires constant release and will either do it alone or with you once, twice even three times a day.  If you’re locking that box he may just do it with someone else OR all of the above!  For this man sex is a necessary release of his energy.  Remember, he’s half horse and   a horse must run and be free!  Although he usually has endurance he can be quick to the shoot and leave you wanting.  They keep sex lighthearted because it ensures their freedom and ability to experience all of life.  Much like an Aries, the excitement for this man is in the chase.  When he’s got you it will likely fade and drop it like a hot potato.  Unless he’s become your friend where it becomes less about the sex and more about another friendly foe in life.  This is one explanation for his tendency to be the Zodiac Bachelor and his large array of female friends.

He will be honest, open and direct in his communication and desire for you.  It isn’t uncommon for them to tell you the first night you go out or talk, that he will have you or that you want him and he knows it.  Just smile and enjoy his self-confidence because you know he’s right.  Don’t be scared if he offers to go home with you for the weekend or that he’ll travel the world with you.  His arrow is aimed but it doesn’t mean he’ll pull the bow.  He’s testing you to see how adventurous you are.  If his bold approach makes you leery, this isn’t the man for you.  He will not hold back and he doesn’t want you to either.  He likes a strong woman and likes to know you want him – it heats up his hunting loins!  But make no mistake, he will be The Man in this dynamic and if a female tries to overrun him – game over.  He will keep it moving because he is The Man and you better just get used to it or keep it moving yourself.   If you can handle being in his line or at the front of his line while he manages the rest, this could be a match full of surprises!

If you can deal with his sudden outbursts of anger or dogmatic ways that often verge on the side of chauvinistic, he will be worth it.  If you can catch him, this man will sweep off your feet like a Prince; charm you naked and take you to the edges of places you’ve never dreamed of – in and out of the bedroom!